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July 2018

I remember learning an old adage in law school that went something like, “the man who represents himself has a fool for a client.”  Consider this scenario.  Your mother just passed away and you are her only child.  She owned a home, a couple of bank accounts and some valuable works of art.  Ten years ago, she wanted to give her house to you because she thought she might have to apply for Medicaid and she was trying to divest herself of assets so she could prove that she didn’t own a home when she applied for those benefits.  So she hired a lawyer to prepare a deed conveying the property to you and then she recorded the deed.  So far, so good.

The problem is, you already own your own home an hour and a half away and the thought of paying property taxes, homeowner’s insurance and maintenance costs on a second home, did not appeal to you.  So rather than spend money on a lawyer to reverse this transaction, you decide to prepare your own deed with the help of Attorney Google.  The problem is, Attorney Google is not licensed to practice law in Connecticut and he has no malpractice insurance.  A couple of months later, you download a document from the internet and you draft a deed.  Then you go to your local bank to have a notary public take your acknowledgment on it, thinking that you’ve done things correctly.  Finally, you take the deed to the town clerk’s office and record it.  Were you successful reversing this transaction?

After your mom died, you wisely decided to hire a lawyer to do the work to administer her estate.  One of the first things the lawyer does is order a title search of your mother’s home.  The title search results come back with a note from the title searcher, indicating that there may be an issue with the title to the house.  There is a concern that your mom may not have owned the house at her death and that you may still own it.  So you ask yourself how can this be?  The problem is the title searcher noted that the deed you prepared (attempting to convey the home back to your mother) is not properly witnessed because it’s missing the signatures of two witnesses.  Hence, it may not be a valid deed after all.

Connecticut has a statute entitled “Validations re conveyancing defects of instruments recorded after January 1, 1997,” otherwise known as the Validating Act.  Among other things, the Validating Act states that any deed made for the purpose of conveying any interest in real property in the State of Connecticut, which was recorded after January 1, 1997, which was attested by either one witness – or by no witnesses at all – is as valid as if it had been executed with witnesses, unless an action challenging the validity of the deed was brought within two years after the deed was recorded.

Under the facts of this case, the Validating Act saved the day.  First, the deed at issue in this example, was prepared ten years ago … well after January 1, 1997.  Second, although your signature was properly acknowledged by a notary public, it was not properly witnessed by two disinterested witnesses.  Nevertheless, no action was brought challenging the validity of this deed within two years of its recording.  So in the end, the statute validated the deed and your mother’s home is properly included in her estate.

Imagine if the facts were different though.  For example, what if one of your creditors brought a timely lawsuit, claiming that the deed was an invalid conveyance from you back to your mother.  If that creditor was successful, the property would not be a part of your mother’s estate and instead, it would be considered your property.  That means it would be subject to attachment by that very same creditor for a debt that you owe them.    

This is just one of an unlimited number of examples of the bad things that can happen to people when they choose to represent themselves.  Thankfully, disaster was averted here but if things were different, you could have been the fool.  Don’t be a fool.  When you’re faced with something as serious as the example I’ve written about here, do the right thing.  Contact a competent lawyer who can help you do things the right way.  Chances are, the fix is not as expensive as you think it is.  

If you have questions related to the Validating Act or about estates that have unusual real estate issues, please don’t hesitate to call the estate planning and probate attorneys at Cipparone & Zaccaro, PC.  

Grandparents want to be grandparents but sometimes they need to step in and try to get guardianship of a grandchild. In this blog post I explain the process you might go through to obtain guardianship of a grandchild. 

You are 60 years old and you’re thinking that it’s time to focus on yourself, now that your kids are grown and on their own.  You’ve reached a point where you can start socking away as much money as possible and plan for the day when you retire.  The problem is your daughter has an addiction. 

Since her early teens, she has been in and out of substance abuse rehab centers.  She didn’t finish high school and is unable to work. She can’t seem to find a long-term relationship.  At various points in her life, she’s been sober, only to relapse once again.    She became pregnant and had a son four years ago. She has been unable to establish paternity.

Your daughter struggles with raising her son. To provide stability for the child, you agree to let them move in with you.  Unfortunately, your daughter cannot overcome her drug addiction.  Consequently, you are raising your grandson.  Now he is four years old and you would like to get him into a daycare setting. When he reaches five, he will enter kindergarten.  His pediatrician tells you that you need to have legal authority to consent to his medical care because the school will want to know that he has his vaccinations before he starts.  What can you do to help your grandson?  You must meet with an experienced probate attorney.  (Keep in mind that custody is a family court matter involving the parents of the child.  Guardianship is a probate court matter involving anyone else who is not a parent of the child. )

The attorney advises you that a probate court can only appoint you as guardian if the court removes your daughter from that position.  Before you meet with your attorney again, you have several conversations with your daughter about the need to make you guardian.  Your daughter agrees and consents to her removal. Your attorney prepares a Petition for Removal of Parent as Guardian that indicates your daughter consents to the removal.   The attorney also prepares an Affidavit which alleges that your grandson has been living with you for the past few years and that you’re not aware of any other pending legal proceedings that relate to this Petition. Your lawyer also prepares a second Petition to have you appointed as guardian.  This Petition alleges that it is in your grandson’s best interests to have you appointed and because your daughter has consented, she must sign this document as well. In addition, your lawyer attaches a certified copy of your grandson’s birth certificate as required by the court. 

The attorney files the paperwork with the probate court and you ask for a hearing date.  What happens next?  The court contacts the Department of Children and Families and they assign a social worker to your case.  The social worker interviews you, your daughter and your grandson.  She also inspects your home to determine whether appropriate accommodations have been made for him.  She does a criminal background check on everyone.  She checks the sex offender registry and other relevant databases and ultimately concludes that your daughter should be removed as guardian and that you should be appointed as permanent guardian in her place.  This report is then filed with the probate court and the judge reviews it.  

Finally, you appear at the hearing, present your testimony and the judge confirms that your daughter has consented to her removal as guardian. The court then finds that it is in the best interests of your grandson to appoint you in that role. The court issues a written decree that you can use to provide care for your grandson and now he can finally start school with you as the decision maker.

The facts described above present just one possible scenario under which a grandparent can obtain guardianship of her grandson.  The fact patterns are endless and depending on those facts, a lawyer might advise his client differently than what he advised in this particular case.  The thing to keep in mind is that these situations are real and they exist in everyday life and most people don’t know how to proceed.  If you have questions related to guardianships, please don’t hesitate to call the probate attorneys at Cipparone & Zaccaro, PC.  We’d be happy to help you with your unique situation.

Mick Jagger once famously sang “what a drag it is getting old.”  Let’s face it, aging in America is fraught with all kinds of perils.  One of those perils includes living alone.  

Consider this scenario: your mom lives alone and you fear that she may be suffering from dementia or worse, Alzheimer’s Disease.  She won’t accept any help from visiting nurses and she has several medical issues at her advanced age.  You’ve arranged for her to receive Meals on Wheels but she doesn’t answer the door for them.  You’ve noticed that she has become combative and aggressive.  You’re worried about whether she’s putting herself in danger when you’re not there to look after her.  Worse still, other people report some scary things about your mom like how she has a tendency to leave the stove on from time to time and how she wanders in the neighborhood.  To make matters worse, you live an hour away, you have full-time job and you have responsibilities to your spouse and children.  Your mom’s only other child – your brother – lives across the country in California, so he’s not around to help. Your mom will not even listen to suggestions of leaving the home she has lived in for decades. Sound familiar?

Unfortunately, you have no legal authority to help your mom.  She does not have a power of attorney to manage her finances or an Appointment of Health Care Representative to manage her health care decisions.  Even if you became her agent under those documents, you do not think she would make sound decisions for her care.

Having exhausted all options, you hire an attorney to file a conservatorship application with the probate court. The attorney files a petition seeking the court’s permission to appoint you to act as your mom’s conservator.  The court issues a decree appointing you as the conservator of both her person and her estate.  Now what?  You’re convinced that your mom can no longer live alone in her own home.  Your next move may be to place her in an assisted living facility or nursing home.

Connecticut law does not allow you to place a conserved person in an institution for long-term care – a nursing home or an assisted living facility – without permission from the court.  You must file a petition with the probate court that approved the conservatorship.  You must send a copy of the petition to your mom, her attorney and any other interested parties (like your brother in California).  The law states that you must file this petition before any placement occurs. If your loved one is placed in a nursing home as a result of a hospital discharge, then you can file the petition after they’ve been placed.  In that instance, however, you must file your petition with the court no later than five days after the placement.

In either case, the probate court will hold a hearing to determine whether to grant your petition.  At the hearing, the court will accept evidence and hear testimony to determine what efforts you have made to tap into community resources in order to avoid placing your mom outside her home.  The judge will also ask why you - as conservator - cannot meet your mom’s physical, mental and psychosocial needs in a less restrictive setting than a nursing home.  If the judge is convinced that you’ve made efforts at trying to arrange for resources in the home and that your mother’s needs cannot be sufficiently met in any other way except by placing her in a nursing home, then it will issue a decree giving you the authority to place your mother in nursing home.

No one wants to face the possibility of forcing their loved one to move to a nursing home. The process for doing so is neither simple or easy.  Probate courts take the moving of a conserved person out of their home very seriously.  If you have questions related to moving a loved one to an institution for long-term care or about conservatorship matters generally, please don’t hesitate to call the estate planning and probate attorneys at Cipparone & Zaccaro, PC.